There are so many women in the world who get offended pretty easily ( including me) because their boyfriends or husbands don’t really treat them the way they would want to be treated or say the words they would want to hear.
Now it’s pretty interesting how things you were constantly thanking your loved one for before became common and you don’t do it anymore taking everything for granted, but when a stranger does a little thing for you, you go running thanking and smiling, thinking probably how nice he/she is.
There are lots of women who haven’t tied their knots yet, thinking that the hard thing is to get married.The hard thing is not to get married,the hard thing is to STAY married and love your spouse the same very way when it all started. It’s a hard work but it’s worth it, Love is a strong feeling, it’s the reason this world still goes on, it can make you do things you thought you couldn’t do.
First of all, as I believe, the most important thing in marriage and relationships is that you Respect each other,if there is no respect then there can’t be any love in the first place.
There are Five ways to win a lady’s heart;
1.) Be pursuant
Pursue her without the pressure. In other words, don’t try to “front” and be cocky. Have a conversation first and show her you are interested beyond her appearance. You don’t have to come up with some crazy pickup line. You can simply say, “I want to introduce myself…”Be sincere and genuine in wanting to get to know her. I see too many good guys get intimidated by a girl’s beauty up front, but take a closer look, and find her true self. Honestly, if you can get past this, you’ll have a leg up on the other guys out there. After all, being genuine is where you excel the most. This is why you are the good guy!!
2.) Be complimentary
One of the most important ways to win a lady’s heart is to compliment her always. Appreciate her with or without makeup. But dont get ittwisted, dont compliment when you dont mean it, hahaha because if you compliment a look of hers you dont really like, she is going to keep looking like that because to her you like the look.
So in my opinion, i think you can be very sincere with your compliments but in a very lovely manner. For instance, On our first date, I told her “You look so beautiful.” I then told her how great she looked when I saw her without makeup the night before. It was real and sincere. While she later revealed to me that she had been testing me to see if I would still like her without makeup, I simply saw a girl who didn’t have enough time because she just got done at the gym. That was incredibly sexy to me.
3.) Be attentive
Show her that you care for her and her needs. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time. For instance, pay attention to what she really likes and take advantage of it. if she likes chinese, take her to a chinese restaurant once in a while and see what she has to say.
4.) Speak well of her in front of other people
Hold her hand. Pick-up artists recommend saying backhanded compliments, but nothing beats a genuine and sincere compliment. A backhanded compliment might work for a one-night stand, but come on, this is a poisonous ingredient in trying to form a long-term relationship. Treat her just as kindly in front of friends and family as you do when you are alone.
5.) Be a good listener
Ask solid open-ended questions that include “what,” “how,” and “why.” If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.